So I found the eshop on Nintendo offers free to download games, and a few videos on YouTube later to shortlist top downloads, I found Vigor. An exploring, combat game which gives you the choice of collecting resources or combat or both!!
I’m trying my mum’s suggestion. To play Vigor, to collect valuable loot and to explore, to discover, without having to shoot one of the other outlanders.
So it involved ALOT of running away, although sometimes I accidentally ran towards the outlander who was shooting me.
My friend said, I am probably playing against some expert gamers, who obviously will want to shoot a beginner in the encounters.