What qualifies you to be transgender?

My neighbour insists on me and everyone else calling them by the gender they were not born into.

They wear clothes in the opposite gender they were born as.

Their general self care is poor and their appearance and present is still similar to the gender they were born in (except the clothes and some make up).

Some people are trying really hard to fit in as a person who is under going the gender reassignment process.

I’m fed up with being word policed when most people we meet call you the gender you are born as.

If you are keen to be referred to as the gender you are waiting to start to change into, then I would like to see more effort around self care, presentation and backing off from this aggressive confrontation cycle.